Networking is a big deal for business leaders. It’s about making connections, knowing the industry, and finding new people for jobs or partnerships. There’s a trick to getting the most out of events, like parties for work or industry stuff. Extroverts, those outgoing folks who talk a lot, have it easier. But what if you’re an introvert?
Introverts are people who like quiet and aren’t so into big, noisy gatherings. They can find these situations uncomfortable and weird. So, how can introverts make the most out of work events? Let’s find out :First thing, remember that you’re not alone in feeling weird. You’re not shy or not interested in people. You’re just more thoughtful than loud. Those loud extroverts need an audience, and you, the introvert, are a great match for that.
Here are 10 tips to help you, as an introvert, feel better about going to work events:
Plan Ahead
Think of a few ways to start conversations before you go. Ask something unusual like, “Where were you born?” People like talking about where they’re from. Or link your question to why you’re there, like, “I’m hiring new salespeople. Do you know anyone?”
Know Why You’re Going
Sometimes you have to go to events for work, but other times you choose to. Know why you’re going. Are you looking for new clients or telling people you’re hiring? This helps you get ready and feel less worried.
Bring a Buddy
If you don’t like going alone, take a friend or coworker. They’ll help you feel more comfortable. You could even bring someone new and introduce them around.
Be Early
If you can’t bring someone, get there early. This way, you can start talking to people before groups form. This allows you to join the event when everyone in the room is looking for someone to speak with.
Prepare Your Quick Introduction
Since it’s a work event, be ready to say what you do. Make it short but interesting. Instead of just your job title, say something like, “I’m a human capital forensics specialist,” not just an HR performance specialist.
Talk to Two People
Instead of trying to talk to everyone, focus on having a good conversation with two new people. That’s it, just two. Set this goal, and it’s okay to leave when you’ve done it.
| Tips | Explanation |
|---|---|
| Plan Ahead | Think of interesting questions before the event, like “Where were you born?” or tie it to your purpose, like finding new hires. |
| Know Your Goal | Understand why you’re attending – looking for clients or announcing job openings? This helps focus and reduce anxiety. |
| Bring a Friend | If being alone makes you nervous, take a friend or coworker along for support. |
| Arrive Early | Getting there before groups form gives you a chance to start conversations with ease. |
| Prepare Your Introduction | Have a short but intriguing answer for “What do you do?” that goes beyond just your job title. |
| Connect with Two People | Instead of trying to talk to everyone, aim to have meaningful conversations with two new individuals. |
| Help at the Event | Volunteering to assist with event tasks introduces you to others and gives you a role. |
| Spot Other Introverts | Seek out fellow introverts who might be feeling similar. You can bond over shared feelings about the event. |
| Host Your Event | Consider creating your own gathering in a quieter setting, giving you control over the environment and attendees. |
| Don’t Worry About Mistakes | Introverts often worry about awkward moments. Remember, everyone makes mistakes sometimes. |
Help Out at the Event
Groups often need help with stuff like checking people in. When you help, you meet others and have a role to play.
Find Other Introverts
A neat trick is to look for other introverts. If you spot someone alone by the snacks, say something like, “Don’t you hate these events?” You’ll probably make a friend.
Make Your Own Events
If you want to be more comfortable, make your own event. Pick a few people you want to know better and meet up at a quiet place like a café. You control who’s there and what it’s like.
Don’t Worry About Awkward Moments
Introverts often feel bad about messing up a conversation. But everyone feels awkward sometimes, and everyone makes mistakes. Get ready for things like how to get out of a never-ending talk. There are books with tips, like “Networking for People Who Hate Networking” by Davora Zack.
So, forget the loud way of doing things. Trust your introvert strengths: listening well and having thoughtful talks. With a plan and some know-how, even the quietest introverts can be great at networking.
